The sounds of our unique version of the 12 Days of Christmas can only mean one thing. It must be Christmas Eve again in the Phillips home. I used to think that the children only "tolerated" this tradition as a necessary means to an end - that end being the trip downstairs to open presents. I think they all actually enjoy this version of the song my mother wrote that we sing every Christmas Eve.
Of course, we always get to have a light meal together (love that Morton Family chip dip) and get to spend a little time together before the festivities start
I am always amazed at how much our girls (we have so few of them) enjoy just being together. Lily looks up to and admires Elsie. Isabel and Laura just carry on where they left off as school classmates. They always seem to have some kind of inside joke or story going on that only they understand.
The boys, on the other hand, are always just a wee bit on the rambunctious side. Caleb and Ben were so excited that they could hardly stand still.
But stand still they did when it was time to read the Christmas story from the Gospel of Luke. My father used to be the one to read from the Bible. Now that torch has passed on to me and it is a great honor to fill my father's shoes. This was the first year that I was able to do so without a few tears. We turned out the lights, lit the Christmas candles, and symbolically let the Light of Christ into our lives, as we sang Christmas hymns and ended with Silent Night.
We all enjoyed that precious moment as we pondered the Son of God coming to earth, bringing the great gift of the Atonement and Resurrection. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever should believe in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" (John 3:16) Our family has been greatly blessed by the peace our understanding of that greatest of all gifts brings to our lives.
And then .... The next day was Christmas Day! Among all the craziness were Belgian Waffles, the Christmas ham, stockings, and goodies and more gifts. By the time the whole family left to return to their own homes, we were just stuffed. Stuffed with good food, good cheer, great joy and tender memories.

Every year, Janene and I usually run so hard and do so much that we don't even get to sit down and enjoy the lights of the Christmas tree. This year, with my surgery, I couldn't run so hard. It may be that it was worse this year having to watch my bride struggle with all the things I usually do. Things like putting up the tree (she did it with Chelanes's help), tearing it down again to fix the lights, then putting it back up again with the help of other children. Things like baking bread and goodies for all our friends and family (well to be truthful, I'm not usually much help there), and things like putting up the decorations and shoveling snow (Janene now runs a mean snowblower). Some of our neighbors call our house "The Christmas House". We like to think of it as a home that is just stuffed with life and love. Truly, as the inscription reads at our front door, the Good Lord has blessed all who enter our home.